OUTLINE
I. Afraid In A Cave (v. 30)
II. Wine & Worse (v.31-35)
III. Grandpa Dad and More Descendants (v.36-38)
Genesis 19:30-38
“Now Lot went up out of Zoar and lived in the hills with his two daughters, for he was afraid to live in Zoar. So he lived in a cave with his two daughters. 31 And the firstborn said to the younger, “Our father is old, and there is not a man on earth to come in to us after the manner of all the earth. 32 Come, let us make our father drink wine, and we will lie with him, that we may preserve offspring from our father.” 33 So they made their father drink wine that night. And the firstborn went in and lay with her father. He did not know when she lay down or when she arose.
34 The next day, the firstborn said to the younger, “Behold, I lay last night with my father. Let us make him drink wine tonight also. Then you go in and lie with him, that we may preserve offspring from our father.” 35 So they made their father drink wine that night also. And the younger arose and lay with him, and he did not know when she lay down or when she arose. 36 Thus both the daughters of Lot became pregnant by their father. 37 The firstborn bore a son and called his name Moab. He is the father of the Moabites to this day. 38 The younger also bore a son and called his name Ben-ammi. He is the father of the Ammonites to this day.”
Sermon Discussion questions
Made It Weird, Then Made It Worse: Genesis 19:30-38
Ice Breaker: You can choose any famous historical figure to join your family for a week. Who do you think would create the most awkward family dinners and why?
This Week Specific
Isolation and Community Influence: Lot and his daughters ended up isolated in a cave, leading to disastrous decisions. In what ways can isolation (emotional, spiritual, or physical) negatively affect your family life or personal decisions? How does your choice of community impact your faith and values?
Compromise in Desperation: Lot’s daughters made a terrible decision out of fear and desperation for a future. Are there areas in your life—whether in work, school, or relationships—where you’ve felt pressured to compromise your values? How can trusting God’s provision help you avoid making such compromises?
The Gradual Drift of Worldliness: Lot initially resisted the sinful culture of Sodom but gradually assimilated into it. What are some subtle ways the culture around us tries to shape our thinking, especially in family dynamics, work, or school? How can you stay vigilant in resisting worldly influences?
The Role of Christian Community: Lot’s failure to return to Abraham and the covenant community contributed to his downfall. In what ways can being part of a Christian community (church, small group, or fellowship) help you stay accountable and grounded in your faith at home, in school, or at work?
Choosing Role Models: The sermon highlighted the importance of who we look up to and imitate. Who are the people you look to for guidance in your family, career, or personal life? How do they align with your values as a follower of Christ?
Parental Responsibility in Faith Formation: Lot’s daughters were heavily influenced by the Sodomite culture and their father’s decisions. If you’re a parent, how can you better model faith in Christ for your children, helping them navigate the world’s influences at school and in friendships?
Responding to Fear with Faith: Lot’s fear led him to make poor choices. Can you identify areas in your life (work, family, school) where fear is influencing your decisions? How might trusting in God’s promises free you from making decisions based on fear rather than faith?
Weekly Questions
What stood out to you/challenged you most in this sermon?
What’s one area you feel the Lord wants to grow you into more Christ likeness?
How can this group pray for you this week?